My approach
Your sessions with me are aimed at strengthening you, making you more flexible, freeing you from external dependencies, meeting your hidden potentials, and existing without giving up on yourself.
We can work with you one-on-one on your relationships or sexuality, or with your spouse, lover, date, nuclear family or extended family.
We can work on adult-level relationships such as mother-father-child, mother-in-law, and in-law relationships. Sometimes our sessions are like a large family gathering, and together we transform these dynamics from "complicated" to "harmonious ."
My clients tell me that it is easy to talk to me because I am friendly. Even if it is their first session, they feel relaxed, able to open up and be understood .
You will feel that I am with you and that I am impartial, unbiased, and unburdened. Together, we use what works for you.
I am not a quiet, armchair type of consultant. I am a participant, I listen and reflect back when you need it. We work on projections, we question your sharing with you. We ask questions, we reframe, and we look with curiosity at how these feelings and thoughts come up in you.
I truly listen to you and understand you. I care deeply about you.
We move forward with the same determination regarding the things you do not want to do as much as the things you want to do . I work to make you see what you cannot see in yourself.
In our sessions, we make room for whatever you feel or cannot feel. The session is your time and I invite all of your happy, crying, indecisive, lonely, weak, and given up states to the session. We accept and care for these states together.
I won't judge you.
You may become addicted .
You may have committed violence or been subjected to violence.
You may have been subjected to sexual harassment or abuse.
You may have had or been subjected to affairs outside of your relationship .
No matter what you have done or thought, we accept you, understand you, and work with you to get where you want to go.
Judgments such as right-wrong, right-wrong, moral-immoral, guilty-innocent, virtue-sin are not part of my approach.
Together we focus on one thing:
Transformation for the better!